I recently found a facebook chat from my husband to a girl he slept with.?

He is a total liar and cheater. He will never give her up and he is using that old best defense is a good offense on you by stating you caused this by admitting you watched x rated movies, I mean, come ON. The guy is a total POS loser and you need to get him out of your life permanently, he will never change except to get much much worse.