I had a wolf appear to me on numerous occasions, I believe this wolf to be my guide,why me?

Why do I have this wolf? What does it mean? My cat I believe has seen him too, as the first time I saw him I was in bed and I saw a wolf figure jump onto a couch stop look at me and sit down then jumped out the window, my cat ran to the window and looked down. Next time I felt an animal(wolf) walking in my bed as I lay there, I could feel the weight shift, the next time I could feel him on me, once again I was in my bed on my back and I felt the weight pinning me down, on my shoulders and my legs, it has been a couple years since I saw the wolf, and the other day I walked outside and I could see the shadowy wolf walking as well as my cat again who quickly ran behind me to watch him. What does this mean? Why me? What does he do? How do I connect further with him and get to know him? I normally associate wolves with Native Americans and I am not so this furthers my curiosity to know why he is coming to me. Please help